How To Speak

1. Ten Commandments of Speaking
1) Mood
2) Ratio of Hear:Speak=7:3
3) Concern more on things of the person
4) Discuss more (your views, standpoint? What will you do?)
5) Positive (what to say before and after)
6) Share sufferings/weaknesses/wrongs ("I am also like this", but can see how the future will be like for him/her)
7) Center on the other party ("I recommend you to ..." vs "He will be glad to see you..")
8) Admit wrongs, ask for help / prayers
9) Clear speech (short with foundation, clear, effective)
10) Stop when manner of speaking turns awry (avoid debates)

2. Words To Be
1) Truthful / Practical / Accurate
2) Non-ignorance (Emphasis, Format)
3) Love
4) Balanced
5) Joined up fittingly (your position or role)

3. Meeting new friends in church
1) Hungry expression -> Have you been to other churches before?
2) ...