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第二场| 难道爱情是神圣的,婚姻只为礼仪性质?
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经文: 创2:18,24; 15:9-11,17-18; 林前7:26,29-32; 7:3-4; 摩3:3; 林后6:14; 彼后3:18
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1. 婚姻和爱情的现实 1) 即使有危机的征兆,婚姻并没有按计划进行(失败),是因为没有明确的计划 2) 神原来的计划:婚约(不先是爱情)是神圣的,起源于神所设立的(不纯粹是人的制度)。 读经:《创2:18,24》 18 耶和华神说:“那人独居不好,我要为他造一个配偶帮助他。” 24 因此,人要离开父母,与妻子联合,二人成为一体。 (1) 人类被造为社交和有性的生物 读经:《创15:9-11,17-18》 9 他说:“你为我取一只三年的母牛,一只三年的母山羊,一只三年的公绵羊,一只斑鸠,一只雏鸽。” 10 亚伯兰就取了这些来,每样劈开分成两半,一半对着一半地摆列,只有鸟没有劈开。 11 有鸷鸟下来落在那死畜的肉上,亚伯兰就把它吓飞了。 17 日落天黑,不料有冒烟的炉并烧着的火把从那些肉块中经过。 18 当那日,耶和华与亚伯兰立约,说:“我已赐给你的后裔,从埃及河直到伯拉大河之地, (2) 参考圣约:由死亡设立,终身有效 (3) 顺服神的设计必须是完全和全心的 2. 婚姻与爱情应该是怎样的? 1) 将神放在你所有关系中的首位,以此得着所有生命中的眼光 读经:《林前7:26,29-32》 26 因现今的艰难,据我看来,人不如守素安常才好。 29 弟兄们,我对你们说,时候减少了。从此以后,那有妻子的,要像没有妻子; 30 哀哭的,要像不哀哭;快乐的,要像不快乐;置买的,要像无有所得; 31 用世物的,要像不用世物;因为这世界的样子将要过去了。 32 我愿你们无所挂虑。没有娶妻的,是为主的事挂虑,想怎样叫主喜悦。 (1) 物质财产 (2) 追求快乐 (3) 应对生离死别 (4) 永恒的作用 2) 在单身、婚姻和家庭的情况下事奉的考虑。 读经:《林前7:3-4》 3 丈夫当用合宜之分待妻子,妻子待丈夫也要如此。 4 妻子没有权柄主张自己的身子,乃在丈夫;丈夫也没有权柄主张自己的身子,乃在妻子。 3) 面对许多的机会和危险,最好征求意见和有切合实际的期望。 3. 婚姻和爱情怎么发生? 1) 心灵和情感的因素使婚姻越久越甜美 读经:《摩3:3; 林后6:14; 彼后3:18》 3 二人若不同心,岂能同行呢? 14 你们和不信的原不相配,不要同负一轭。义和不义有什么相交呢?光明和黑暗有什么相通呢? 18 你们却要在我们主救主耶稣基督的恩典和知识上有长进。愿荣耀归给他,从今直到永远!阿门。 2) 神会使我向往而寻求什么和谁呢? - 与基督:追求成长 - 个人的信靠 - 品格:明显的正直 - 深层的美 - 角色:带领 - 帮补 - 表达:牺牲 - 同情 - 智慧:真实的谦卑 - 建立对方的信任 - 渡过难关的恩典 3) 在教会找这样的伴侣?真可以处理欲火攻心和孤单的感觉吗?
1. The reality of marriage and love 1) Even with danger signals, marriage does not go as planned (marital failures) because there is no clear stated plan 2) God's original plan: marriage covenant (not love first) is sacred and of divine origin (not purely a human institution). Read:<Gen 2:18, 24> 18 The Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.” 24 That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh. (1) Human are created to be social and sexual beings Read: <Gen 15:9-11, 17-18> 9 So the Lord said to him, “Bring me a heifer, a goat and a ram, each three years old, along with a dove and a young pigeon.” 10 Abram brought all these to him, cut them in two and arranged the halves opposite each other; the birds, however, he did not cut in half. 11 Then birds of prey came down on the carcasses, but Abram drove them away. 17 When the sun had set and darkness had fallen, a smoking firepot with a blazing torch appeared and passed between the pieces. 18 On that day the Lord made a covenant with Abram and said, “To your descendants I give this land, from the Wadi of Egypt to the great river, the Euphrates— (2) A study of holy covenant: established by death, valid for lifetime (3) Submission to God’s design must be total and wholehearted 2. What should getting attached or marriage look like? 1) Putting God first amidst all relationships, and getting perspectives of all elements of life Read: <1 Co 7:26, 29-32> 26 Because of the present crisis, I think that it is good for a man to remain as he is. 29 What I mean, brothers and sisters, is that the time is short. From now on those who have wives should live as if they do not; 30 those who mourn, as if they did not; those who are happy, as if they were not; those who buy something, as if it were not theirs to keep; 31 those who use the things of the world, as if not engrossed in them. For this world in its present form is passing away. 32 I would like you to be free from concern. An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord’s affairs—how he can please the Lord. (1) Material possessions (2) Pursuit of pleasure (3) Dealing with death and loss (4) Impact of eternity 2) Considering serving in the case of singlehood, marriage and family. Read: <1 Co 7:3-4> 3 The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4 The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. 3) With many opportunities and dangers, it is better to seek advice and have realistic expectations 3. How does marriage and love happen? 1) Spiritual and emotional factors make marriage sweeter as the years go by Read: <Amos 3:3; 2 Co 6:14; 2 Pe 3:18> 3 Do two walk together unless they have agreed to do so? 14 Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? 18 But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and forever! Amen. 2) What and whom would God make me yearn and seek for? - With Christ: commitment to grow - personal trust - Character: obvious integrity - deeper beauty - Role: leading - helping - Expressing: sacrifice - compassion - Wisdom: genuine humility - build trustworthiness of the other - Gracious in pulling through difficulties: overlook small mistakes - braving hardships 3) Finding such a mate in church? Can I deal with sexual feelings and loneliness?
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